Get off nostr dms if it bothers you. 

 Just change your inbox relay for one that's private 

 Oh? This is possible? Any resources on how to do this? 

 https://image.nostr.build/d15011be57f78ab49c5dfc54591a446cc6bde233e1d882c11102ec908cc7e7db.jpg 

 And this as well
nostr:nevent1qqst9efnnsvf64397d0cjc0ft7mtp95vv7hqsmtx0z5nfslrmt5fhlgpzdmhxue69uhhwmm59e6hg7r09ehkuef0qgs04xzt6ldm9qhs0ctw0t58kf4z57umjzmjg6jywu0seadwtqqc75srqsqqqqqptpfre6 

 It’s a snooper bot to remind us all that while Nostr DMs are encrypted at the content level (no one can see your messages), they are open at the metadata level - i.e. who is DMing who and when.  Definitely an area where improvement is needed. Or, when DMing you can seek to move the convo to some other platform as quickly as possible. 

 this is from coracle. its a different NIP.  @cloud fodder showed it to me 
https://image.nostr.build/1e501b388179b743ca715072e1942b6f5c24e4c707f8e90a18f2d3015b70d87b.png 

 Need that  

 amethyst has it too.. ya just cant message anyone on primal or damus. 

 Coracle is my least favourite client.  Not really a great UX to send people to another messaging app. 

 I agree with Coracle - if you want privacy (and you should) then take steps to independently ensure your own privacy (SimpleX is a great choice).

Don't wait for someone else to do it (e.g. coding it into Nostr). Nostr will get better (I'm sure) but regardless, each person needs to take ownership of their own lives.

(And assume that virtually everything that you publish online is at some level discoverable). 

 Use https://www.0xchat.com/#/ 

 Nah, just change your client. Amethyst doesn't cause this.