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 I’m 44. So take what I have to say with that knowledge. 

Many years ago I could have married wealthy but chose not to because our values didn’t align. 

Women don’t fall in love with money. Maybe some do. IDK 🤷🏻‍♀️ I didn’t. Never could. 

Make a list of your personal values & seek those who share those values. 

And whatever you, don’t test them or lie to them. I’ve done it. Others have done it to me. It never turns out good. 😊 

Gave this advice to a man years ago who thanked me later: go to a public location & say hi to everyone. Don’t focus on just the women you’re physically attracted to. Doing this will get you comfortable talking to anyone. Then when the time comes to speak with one you “desire” for whatever reason it won’t feel as awkward. 

LMK if you have further questions.