i struggle with this too. ive settled on not recommending, tried for a while. and i dont think its nostr's fault! i fucking love this zany, punk space where i can create my unique experience. i think its more that my friends and family are so not ready for the experience of 'driving the car' when its been on autopilot for so long ( unknown to them perhaps), less worried about the content ( there is so much terrible shit you get exposed to on twitter, fb, insta...not better imo but just my ecperience) but that they just cant handle the responsibility involved. most people dont want that imo...which i dont blame them for..i have lots of spaces in my life i have abdicated some responsibility. it just so happens i nerd out hard on this stuff and like the project and ethics behind nostr so it keeps me going to learn, try stuff, make it better. Itll be here when theyre ready 🙂 

 this exactly