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 30 and I should have started a few years earlier 
 Did you get married earlier but decided to not get kids yet? 
 Yes, went 2yrs. I remember we moved out of the inlaws into our own place, after a cross country move, and just enjoyed each other. 

That being said we are on the younger side of our kids cohorts now. I feel & see I am younger than most.

My dads advice seems the best: there is not right time to have kids, because its never the right time. Just gotta do it, you will figure it out. 
 Oh that’s cool 
 Yup family takes time. I feel bad for saying I was tired pre kids 
 My wife also miscarried on our first go round which was a massive blow to everything and took time. 
 Sucks but honestly I hear that so often unfortunately ☹️ 
 That's why I mentioned it we have to be open and honest otherwise you make choices with half truths 
 If you have bitcoin, have kids now, you will be able to afford it .  I started at 30 and that is a bit late, if i had bought bitcoin, I would have had more kids, younger.  I hope I give my kids that opportunity