It’s tempting to want to be likable, but trying to be likable turns into unrelatable real quick.
Whenever I make a note, I just assume it’s going straight into the void and nobody will ever see it. That way, I’m noting what I WANT instead of what I think other people would like to see.
If people like it, they resonate with something about ME and not some sort of reflection I created of them. I’m not here to connect with EVERYONE, I’m here to find my tribe✌️
makes it more authentic, certainly <3
Meh, I'm weird yarn lady who just wants to share the things I make and if someone sees it and smiles, my work is done. It's too hard to try to network and please everybody. I interact when I see something that makes me feel something. You're crushing it 💪🫂
I love that you’re a weird yarn lady. You’re one of the coolest npubs on the whole protocol if you ask me 😉
You're sweet. Making me blush ☺️.
aren't you supposed to be sleeping?
Yeah I’m doing that half nap thing rn because I can’t sleep so I will just lay in bed and fuck around on my phone for a while 🤷♀️
Its ok, we dont have to be liked in this life for in the afterlife our deeds and words will be held accountable, fuck im trouble.
Good luck with your endeavors
My endeavors have already reaped many rewards 🫂
that is excellent news 🤝
Quality over quantity fo life 🥰
💯 refreshing! Every time I post my notes I asked myself if I am speaking from within or am I asking for validation? The reason why I am here on #nostr is the former: to speak my mind, truthfully and authentic to me and not because I need to conform or belong. I am acutely aware that I am not everyone's cup of tea and I am ok with it! 😉👌
Same here! Although, it’s relatively new. I was once a BIG people-pleaser.
Anyway, glad to find a new follow🫂
Sending out that genuine signal
I don't even know why I'm here. 99% of posts go well over my head, or it's just someone being goofy/ funny.
I didn’t really know either at first, I just stuck around long enough 🫂
Just move into your highest excitement, joy and passion with no insistence on the outcome. Everything you need is there.
As long as you are being genuine and true to yourself, I don't se a problem with trying to be likeable or unlikeable, to me, just having in my mind that not everyone will rock with me by definition is enough, so I try to befriend as many people as possibe.
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