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 It’s tempting to want to be likable, but trying to be likable turns into unrelatable real quick. 

Whenever I make a note, I just assume it’s going straight into the void and nobody will ever see it. That way, I’m noting what I WANT instead of what I think other people would like to see.

If people like it, they resonate with something about ME and not some sort of reflection I created of them. I’m not here to connect with EVERYONE, I’m here to find my tribe✌️