Oddbean new post about login | logout Men have no idea how low the bar can be. 😂 They're all trying the "act like an aloof, cheating arse to get da chicks" angle, so one guy can stop you in your tracks by bringing you some tea or opening the door, or remembering your birthday.
The best were the guys who would open with put-downs. Never got a compliment, just one put-down, after another, cuz they think they're Mr. Super Sly and they're the first one to try that Game, even though they're all reading the same writers. You look like Halle. If she were short and chubby and not as hot... You'd be better as a blonde. Not hot, but a bit better. Your contacts are very convincing. Dude, that's the third time I've heard that this week. 🙄
the way people's minds have been messed up is incredible but my experiences with women have mostly been about them hovering around me and then i notice them and think "hmm she likes me, she's ok" and then usually the play fighting starts
They do that on here, too. First time they communicate with me is usually something nasty or mean, or some accusation.
The little things matter, gents. https://v.nostr.build/6OADwG6qk4SDQ2Bp.mp4 nostr:nevent1qqs0pqhj4tlxup5m5ldjz4rt5ly7tg7lzf5ptfljtftwflwpkmzskpcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhsygxavex4usqkgvage45lqpdwzjqgqs630zd4nhj67p38dhn9vv7nrypsgqqqqqqslzsggr
Makes me wonder how people got to thinking that the bar is high in the first place. Also, the "aloof prick" strategy doesn't attract the best women
women always give the signal, usually, simply paying attention to you, and making excuses to be around you oh, all sorts of excuses, you'll hear every kind if you have ever had a lady warm up to you there's no craft or trick to it, they sniff you out and they are magnetised it's almost never about symbols or signals, it's usually unconscious and pheromones drugs of all kinds mess it up though, be it alcohol making them more overconfident or hormones making them unable to smell properly, or even them having practise and knowing to stay aloof because they had drugs
It's cuz they're all hitting on the same small subset of women, and those women are justifiably annoyed by it.
I have female friends and relatives in that category and you can just watch men line up to get knocked down, trying more and more complex psychological tricks and frantically strategizing. Every other woman within a 5-mile radius https://c.tenor.com/_vWOrDe7bJYAAAAC/tenor.gif
