Exactly.   

 Thanks to nostr:nprofile1qqsd236myjzpu489zzr6pxcx0jtrn04pezjnqft23a2pykyuszvwr3qpzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezumt0d5hs50pef4 for making everyone more aware of the insecurity of privacy of NOSTR DMs. Maybe 0xChat NOSTR DMs are more private. Or simpleX if you need to be really secure.

Are Amethyst DMs updated to be more private? nostr:nprofile1qqsds3ghsq4yx36hc44wseptl76dymj6mcr3ypfh2qs4dq8439h90xcpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgtcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhszrnhwden5te0dehhxtnvdakz7klp4s7 what NOSTR client were you using for DMs? 

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 Amethyst, i know this problem, we should all switch to Oxchat relay for dm. As you said, i use simpleX for sensitive information.  

 I've set 0xchat relay only for DM and it works if i activate the anonymous button in dm right ? https://image.nostr.build/e7737402a6bb730757d92a2d10e964daaa18d48e5d1dde832e742d19b12c59df.jpg 

 I think using just the 0xChat relay with the Amethyst client won't help. I think the amethyst anonymous button just helps encrypt your message so no one can read what you DM but anyone like nostr:nprofile1qqsd236myjzpu489zzr6pxcx0jtrn04pezjnqft23a2pykyuszvwr3qpzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezumt0d5hs50pef4 can still see that you sent a DM. Try getting the 0xChat client that nostr:nprofile1qqs84k6jpsav0jmdeqjn2zxlpnsajaw6f8l0m2d4e9t8gjsyn53s4nspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuvrcvd5xzapwvdhk6qgdwaehxw309aukzcn49ekk2qghwaehxw309aex2mrp0yh8x6tpd4ehgu3wvdhk6pw0r8j works on.