Can you try ntfy? I was able to test and it seems to be working. Were you able to select the notification provider on Amethyst?
Also, which version are you two using?
fdroid 0.90.4 with ntfy. Yes, I am able to select ntfy in Amethyst. Pixel 8a running GrapheneOS. I've been trying to get this working for weeks. Had zero luck. Not a single notification comes through from Amethyst. Does relay selection have anything to do with this??
Yes, the system will use your inbox relays to pull notifications from.
So, make sure they don't require auth.
https://image.nostr.build/77fb9adb0b474b6ead8cbd8daade5cb42c76ee6865442e86eda6a62f0d5637ae.jpg
as far as I know, none of these relays have auth
Hum.. yeah, they should work. I will run a few test as soon as I get home
Not sure if this helps, but I'm also running #0xchat set to ntfy. I think this is working?? Whenever someone sends a DM, I get that weird 0xchat default squeak, but strangely, no notification visible in the pull down notification view. So I'm not sure what to make of that. Perhaps this is expected behavior for 0xchat, and ntfy is working with it properly.
Can you see the notifications when you open the ntfy page in the browser?
https://image.nostr.build/b71d6490df392a80fd409e86c2a24be87188a08ae067891a8d5de5d32949700c.jpg
You can click on them to open the webpage and you should see the notifications there if they went through