Strange also since looks like you have many relays connected to 🤔 

 Very strange.  I’m rolling with it tho 💅 

 Because you're not reading from the relay that the original note was written to, and 1 or more of the following
1) nobody that replied to the thread rebroadcast it to a relay you read from
2) nobody tagged the pubkey in a reply to the original note for which your client could conceivably do a relay list metadata lookup
3) your client may not support NIP65
4) your relays may be throttling requests from you 

 Thanks for this info.  
3.). I’m using Damus
4.) Why? 

 Not only that! Most of the time you click on a note and don't see any likes or comments, you can only see them after you refresh the page. This is very boring! 🥸 

 it is also possible that the original note was marked as "deleted" by the users client.

Some clients hide notes that are marked as deleted if im not mistaken.