Oddbean new post about | logout
 @f1c2774e @dabe0ad5 I think that for most people ot starts with a kink.  They finally feel sexy when they wear women's clothes even though they are just an unkempt, overweight, pale man.  At least that is what I am seeing in the Pacific NW.  Then they get so much positive feedback that they finally feel like they aren't a fat loser anymore.  So they cling to this little bit of positivity in their life.  

At least it gets them to shave their face and brush their hair, I suppose. 
 @6350630e @f1c2774e @730c288f 

It's a kink that has been allowed. 
 @dabe0ad5 @6350630e @f1c2774e A dude who I met through some car events got sucked into this. He is about 20 years younger than me, and has kind of an aimless life. When I met him, he was a regular gay dude who liked cars and guns. Now he's got purple hair, wears garish makeup, and is growing breasts. It's weird.