ah no.  you misunderstood me and I probably should have been clearer.  I was speaking generally in the end and not about you at all ... more of a tip to avoid stinky fake zen people who reek of "words".  (I wouldn't have said the last part if I thought you were a faker 💘) 

 Hahaha I’m def not fake … just old and have been around the block a bit! In a good way 😆😎💜