It’s all about self and how one feels about things. Pointing finger at someone else is just blame games that do not help anyone. It’s not them, it’s always you when you are depressed, feel bad, etc, etc…. You have the power to change the situation or how you feel about it 🫡🫂 

 The "blame game" is such a common trap. 
It doesn;t lead to resolution or growth. 
It keeps people stuck in a loop of resentment and frustration.