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 How nowadays women can interest men besides sex ? 
 Proper emotional responses 
 With intelligent conversations. 
 That’s might be some boring on the 3rd date 🤷‍♂️😄 
 Really! Intelligent conversations can be sexy, with the right person. 
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 The key word is “the right person” which is rarely 
 Even good friends can be the ‘right person’. 
 Do you believe in the friendship between woman and man ? 🤔 
 Yes absolutely 
 How does it possible? 
 P.S. usually one of them wants having sex 😁 
 I have lots of male friends that are wonderful.
I enjoy having great intelligent conversations with them and no sexual involvement. 
 I believe this gets easier as you get older (maturity) and when you’re in a healthy relationship. 

Both age and marriage have drastically affected my ability to build platonic friendships with the opposite sex. 
 Kitty check your texts please 🙏 
 every single one of them would have sex with you if you gave him the opportunity ! 
 Doubt that, most are married. 
 Marriage isn’t the barrier 🙃 
 Should be, unless there’s agreement of an ‘open marriage’. 
 Give the opportunity to someone and you will be surprise with the outcome. 
 Sure some may, but definitely not all married people would. 
 i hope so there is still some faith left in humanity 
 Indeed there is 💜 
 Stackin’ §Ats 丰 ! 
 Money and food 
 I guess that’s the man duty 
 Then they got nothing left? 🤷 
 They have something 😉 
 Cooking like mamma 
 Nah ! 
 Get correct. 
 conversation
 
 Sense of humour 💯 good hugs 🫂 
 Shared interest is key to long term relationships. Sexuality is just one possibility of many - arts, science, sports, nature, wellness, mindfulness, travel and other activities can be better together, as well.
I think, the secret of long term relationship is beeng a soulmate to your partner, meaning you prefer to do certain activities important  to your wellbeing together.
 
 Honestly? Shared life goals and morals. I have very little in common with regards to hobbies with my partner but we both want the same things in life and have a timeline in mind to achieve those things. 

Love and attraction will only get you so far in a relationship. For some people it might be enough but there will always be a tension or resentment if one of you doesn't get their way and feels they wasted their time on earth or wishes they'd achieved something different.

Having the same life goals and general morals is far more important than superficial things like hobbies.  
 Very well said, sir. 
 I agree! Well said! 
 being care taker 
 The other 90% of relationship. 
 For starters, how about homemaking and raising the future of mankind. Women have a very important role in society/humanity, and the base is to care and raise young children to be compassionate, caring and to help establish a worldview. If a man is not interested in that than the man or society for that matter is pretty much not going to make it. 
 Just being a classic women that she should be and that they were for most of humanity history 
 Seems like makes sense 
 yes it's true