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 I just watched a video of this woman saying men have a different idea of a sundress... from the answers I received, it is short, thin, spaghetti  strap dresses....where women think more https://image.nostr.build/d7588ffe6031c5e3b26521d0fde474ec39883e6504947bbac927e2d0ae388d9b.png 
 I thought they were meant to be sleeveless dresses, too. Maybe not spaghetti only but spaghetti or tank straps. 
 I thought it was just cute flowy dresses with different straps or short sleeves.... i didn't realize that a lot of men like short, thin as well 
 Well what they like and the definition of sundress are not the same 😉 
 Let me say this… I think guys like form fitting dresses ✨on perfect bodies✨
I tried on a mermaid wedding dress because I love that look. I did NOT love it on me 🤣 I would be much cuter (positively cute) in a flowy sundress than a skintight mini (negatively cute)… 
 I hear ya. I do better with flowy dresses or ones that are tight right underneath the breast/ hight stomach area and with a flowing skirt. if the material is cheap and you can see all the rolls, then it doesn't look right, also it is hard to wear spaghetti strap when you are larger chest, the spaghetti strings dont look right with a bra strap, also if you CAN find a strapless bra that doesn't look like you are wearing fifty tube tops over each other, then i don't know....all my dresses are either really loose or the same shape. Fitting on top, with the tight spot under the chest, and loose on the bottom.  
 So the spaghetti strapped cotton ones aren't sun dresses? 
 no they are....i didn't realize how, um, more form fitting and revealing men think a sundress is in their mind 
 I would guess men's minds probably do that for a lot of things you don't realize  
 It's funny how long my sundresses are and I'm looking like a nun lol  
 For the record that's a perfectly passable sundress in my male sundress mental schema.