Oddbean

I hope my child never feels the need to come out. That our relationship is a place where they can come as they are, however that changes over the years and I will just be witness to their experience and a place of unconditional love.

Tuff question also child what age we referring to? And I pray I won't have to deal with this. I'm just ask them does it feel right or wrong. And point out the bozo shit after that they on that own. I don't think people actually have a problem with being gay i think it's more don't have to wave a flag letting everyone know you suck dick. Or put your sexual preference on younger impressionable minds.

I would tell them that I am fine with how or what they choose, but I would hope I would have talked to them before that moment about a related thing, that concerns me more: - ... that, no matter how they feel or what they like, that they're clear on the distinction between their body (including their sex) and that it's very important to distinguish between the preferences/feelings and the body parts or norms. - that it's important to realize that any "late" change will never be perfect, because genetics and/or time will always be against them. - that it is more important to be able to think freely, and consequently choose freely (e.g. wear whatever you like), instead of trying to change your body. - and that any changes to make yourself "more beautiful" (as opposed to trying to correct a serious physical defect or handicap) will be a battle that can never be won. You can never be the most beautiful, because there will always be someone better, and if you think you reached the top, you will fight changing qualifiers. It is a futile pursuit. Possibly with examples, as there are plenty of examples, such as of women who aren't at all supermodel-quality but still very much admired. (And that personality counts for a lot more than people like you to believe.) - and that they should allow themselves to consider and reconsider as much as they need to be certain, to make sure that it is really how they feel as opposed to a spur-of-the-moment or hype or curiosity or confusion. And then I hope they also understand that your question above falls within this answer and they would understand that the "coming out" is more of an update than anything else.

you have to understand men enforce boundaries women cross them as a man you must ALREADY be ripped, tan, wealthy, strong at the point if this happens its the external territory/social invading YOUR space if you have 10 children, this may be inevitable but first you must maximize the males masculinity and the females feminity for both are sacred