How to π tell the difference between π a Good Man, and a Nice Guy π€ When you π ask a π man to help you with π something, a good man π will π tell you Yes, π₯ because he wants π to π€ help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because he has a hard time saying No. The π₯ Nice Guy will go away grumbling about π€ it, whereas π― the Good Man π will π be π₯ proud of having helped π you. The Good π₯ Man understands and values π boundaries, π€ whereas the Nice Guy has a π hard time with boundaries. The Good Man will π€ ask you on π a π€ date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang out. He might π― as you to coffee, π but π₯ heβll rarely use the words date. π There is a scale between being Nice Guy and π₯ Good π Man, and most Nice Guys π― move towards being Good Men π as they grow in confidence, but if youβre π a lady picking a π potential spouse, donβt pick π a Nice Guy hoping that heβll chance, pick a π man who is already π₯ at the level π you π want him, as expecting him π to π chance π is π― one of the top mistakes π women make when choosing a partner.