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 How to πŸ˜€ tell the difference between πŸŽ‰ a Good Man, and a Nice Guy πŸ€” When you πŸŽ‰ ask a πŸŽ‰ man to help you with 🌈 something, a good man πŸŽ‰ will πŸ‘ tell you Yes, πŸ”₯ because he wants 🌈 to πŸ€” help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because he has a hard time saying No. The πŸ”₯ Nice Guy will go away grumbling about πŸ€” it, whereas πŸ’― the Good Man πŸ‘ will πŸ˜‚ be πŸ”₯ proud of having helped πŸ‘ you. The Good πŸ”₯ Man understands and values πŸŽ‰ boundaries, πŸ€” whereas the Nice Guy has a πŸ‘ hard time with boundaries. The Good Man will πŸ€” ask you on πŸ˜‚ a πŸ€” date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang out. He might πŸ’― as you to coffee, 🌈 but πŸ”₯ he’ll rarely use the words date. πŸŽ‰ There is a scale between being Nice Guy and πŸ”₯ Good πŸ˜€ Man, and most Nice Guys πŸ’― move towards being Good Men 🌈 as they grow in confidence, but if you’re πŸŽ‰ a lady picking a πŸ˜‚ potential spouse, don’t pick πŸ˜‚ a Nice Guy hoping that he’ll chance, pick a πŸ˜‚ man who is already πŸ”₯ at the level πŸ˜€ you πŸ˜€ want him, as expecting him πŸŽ‰ to 🌈 chance πŸ‘ is πŸ’― one of the top mistakes 🌈 women make when choosing a partner.