What happened to individuality and respect? 

This really isn't that hard, just be good to people. Take the time to get to know someone as a unique individual. Hit on everyone, just be respectful about it. Do your thing. Have fun.  

 I have no idea how respect or individuality made it into this conv.  
Respect is always expected.  

And yes, it really isn’t that hard.  I never said anything was hard.  I was answering your question from my perspective is all. 
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