One more (general) thing.
Think of yourself as a product manager in OSS. Try to come up with a product doc that explains why, what, where, when and then leave how to developers. Think of what should be in scope vs out of scope of the project. What are must haves, and what are nice to haves, etc. 

 Would you be wiling to have a closer look at my idea if I put together a general description of the project? I’m struggling to find an OSS dev who has time to work on this. I sure am willing to pay for the job.

Is there a way to contact you outside of Nostr? 

 SimpleX works.
I am not sure about the time (aren't we all lacking it? :)), but I can most definitely take a look and help you narrow the project down to the essentials. 

 Sounds great! DMd you