@StephanGuy @✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @m0xEE thanks for unpacking this, yes the tldr is running your own private relay is efficient and simple. also having multiple relays where you and your connections exchange notes is nice.
i didn't know that nostr integrates with fediverse now. this is going to be an interesting weekend.
its a bridge relay.mostr.pub by @Alex Gleason he is working on something better called ditto, which more replaces an instance, and allows you to use fedi apps to access nostr