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Amanda | 5 months ago (raw) | export | reply | flag +19 
 Being a victim is much more comfortable than taking responsibility 🕊️
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MAHDOOD | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 It’s scary for a lot of people. But to me, it’s scarier giving other incompetent people responsibility over my life.
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Brisket | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 It's much easier to be the victim or the judge.

Both roles lead to discomfort.
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Rogue Pleb | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Truth
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anonymous | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Not everything is about taking responsibility. There is no "taking responsibility" for 3 years of harassment that was motivated by lies and false accusations. Be careful no to abuse these kinds of statements as cheap excuses.