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 How to tell the πŸ”₯ difference between 🌈 a Good Man, and a Nice Guy πŸ€” πŸ˜‚ When you ask a man πŸ€” to help you with something, a good man πŸ”₯ will tell you Yes, because he wants πŸŽ‰ to πŸ˜€ help you, but a nice πŸ€” guy will say Yes, because he 🌈 has a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away πŸ€” grumbling about it, whereas the Good πŸ€” Man will be proud of having helped you. The Good Man understands πŸ€” and πŸ‘ values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has πŸ‘ a hard πŸ’― time with boundaries. The Good Man will ask you on a date, whereas 🌈 the Nice πŸŽ‰ Guy πŸ˜‚ will ask you to hang 🌈 out. πŸ’― He might as you 🌈 to πŸ˜€ coffee, but he’ll rarely use the words date. There is πŸ‘ a πŸŽ‰ scale between being Nice Guy and Good Man, πŸŽ‰ and most Nice πŸ’― Guys move towards πŸ‘ being Good Men 🌈 as they grow in πŸŽ‰ confidence, but if you’re a lady picking a potential spouse, don’t pick a Nice πŸ‘ Guy hoping that he’ll chance, pick a πŸ˜€ man who is already at the πŸŽ‰ level πŸ€” you want him, as expecting him to chance is one of the top πŸ‘ mistakes women make πŸ˜‚ when choosing a partner.