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Toshi | 6 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 I think you didn’t understand what I said.
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ede3d957 | 6 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 And I guess you don't understand what an agreement means.

If you can't leave an abusive relationship, the next best thing to do is agree with it to not feel the pain.
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Toshi | 6 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 I’m not talking about agreeing because I don’t have any other choice. I’m talking about actually agreeing.
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ede3d957 | 6 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +2 
 Now I understand.

You agree with yourself and some other gang members to extort and coerce me against my will. I call this abuse and a criminal offence.

Thanks to Bitcoin and even more so Monero you don't have power over me.

Mind your own business.
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ede3d957 | 6 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Sorry for stating an example. But may it be for the betterment of your life and everybody connected to it.

You show a form of traumatisation. There is nothing wrong with trauma. In this world everybody gets to be traumatised in one way or another.

Your job as an adult is to work through the trauma so you can choose the life you want to live instead of pushing fixes for your unresolved trauma via societal structures onto everybody else creating and recreating new trauma.

How do I know you are traumatised? Well losing sensitivity so you can not differentiate abuse from mutual agreement is one hint. Another one us that you want to use some bigger force outside of you to fix things/you.

A third one is that ignorance of the pain so it doesn't disturb your "well" functionjng in everyday life. 


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