Yes a major reason I just use nostr is that x is just so manic, as you say..

..but I feel that might just the natural result of having millions of humans able to argue and be shits to each other - and that when nostr succeeds it will be the same

I guess the hope is we can have our own algos that actively promote peaceful engagement.

The algo is going to determine your reality.  We really are at the start of something big here..