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Once, a longtime friend asked me to help him out with money for mobile credit. An emergency. He promised to pay it back on the 5th. Forty reais.
I didn’t hesitate. I didn’t even worry about whether, if the roles were reversed, he’d do the same. I gave him the money—which meant I’d never hold it against him; whatever happened, I’d know if I had a friend worth more than gold.
On the 5th, the money was in my account.
By honoring small commitments, I understood that I could trust him with bigger ones.
So, my advice to you is: never give your trust completely.
Build it up slowly, so that trust has value and you don’t lose too much.
“Never test the depth of the water with both feet.”
Finding out a friend is false in a moment of crisis—that’s reckless.
Therefore, pay close attention to the trivial things in day-to-day life, because, as the saying goes, the devil is in the details. That is: disloyalty, dishonesty, lies—they don’t just appear in the moments of ruin in a friendship or relationship; they’re right in front of you, in the lie your girlfriend tells her parents, in the underhanded moves your friend makes with his business partner. But you prefer to ignore it, because it hasn’t affected you yet—or worse, because it benefits you.
In my case, I figured 40 reais was a small price to pay to see if a friend’s word had weight and value.
As I’ve seen happen before, since it wasn’t “a huge amount,” some might say:
- “I’ll pay it back later, I have bigger bills to cover” (and there’s never a smaller bill).
- “If he asks, I’ll return it” (trying to win through forgetfulness or wearing them down).
Or, my personal favorite:
- “Asking for ten reais back? If you’re starving, just let me know.”
Dishonesty knows no limits.
But it’s up to us to show what happens when they cross the line of our kindness.
Ascolta! When you allow the flame of ambition to die in your chest, you tend to lean toward petty and foolish matters that do not belong to adults. In other words, the moment you abandon your dedication to grand goals, through idleness, you will end up getting involved in trivialities, thereby diminishing your manhood. Without tasks inherent to an adult man, you will end up acting like a boy in all areas of your life, including relationships.
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One of the most terrifying things for a man is not being up to what life demands of him.
Someone gets injured, and he doesn’t have the skill to help.
Something breaks, and he doesn’t know how to fix it.
A woman comes into his life, and he isn’t prepared to build a relationship with her.
Threats loom over those he loves, and he doesn’t know how to defend them.
Always keep learning! Don’t get complacent. Use your free time wisely—no knowledge is wasted. Learn to dress a wound, tie a knot, start a fire; learn a new style of fighting, build muscle, master a new language, study new ways to earn.
Stop wasting your life on short videos and cheap dopamine. The longer you stay in this trap, the deeper the hole gets. Leave that disadvantage for your competitors. Do what must be done! That’s how value is built. Only vagrants and children do whatever they want. Not you! One day, life will demand something from you; be ready!
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"The man should not merely cling to life,
for then he will be a coward and will not escape.
He should not merely await death,
for then he will be a suicide and will not escape.
He must seek his life with a spirit of
furious indifference to it; he must crave life
like water and yet drink death like wine."
(G.K. Chesterton, Orthodoxy)
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Entrepreneurship isn’t for the weak, nor for the naive who still believe in success stories without scars. Anyone who only shows you victories is selling you a cheap lie. True success is forged in the fire of failures, in the nights when the weight of defeat nearly breaks you. If you’re not ready to bleed, if you don’t understand that every mistake is a price to be paid, then the business world will swallow you whole and spit out the bones.
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An openly declared enemy often has more principles and honor than a false friend.
While an adversary might wage war against you for a position at the top, he would never meddle with your family, dishonor your home, or insult your children.
A treacherous friend, on the other hand, could visit your home for years, all the while coveting what is yours; as he dines at your table, he studies the weaknesses within your home, ready to ruin your marriage and steal your assets, with no moral restraint or concern for the consequences this will bring to all the lives involved.
Today, I better understand my parents’ rules about “not visiting the neighbors’ houses too often” because it also brings an obligation to reciprocate. Also, avoid becoming too close or familiar with people you don’t know well; for no matter how long you’ve known a friend, can you really say you know what’s going on in his mind right now?
The old castles had rules:
1. Strangers were limited to specific areas, like the outer courtyard, far from the most private or strategic places.
2. Visitors were rarely left unaccompanied.
3. The castle gates would close at sunset.
However humble your home may be, protect what is most valuable within it. Have principles as strong as the walls of a fortress in this world of Sodom. If you treat your home carelessly, like an exposed shack full of gaps, eventually, venomous intruders will creep inside, intertwine with what is vulnerable, and kill what you love most.
Ascolta bene, amico mio. The true power of a man lies not in his words but in what he does while others shout. The silence of a strong man carries more weight than a thousand speeches from a weak one. While the weak fidget, complain, and beg for attention, the strong man moves in silence, building and conquering without fanfare. Speak less, do even more. This is the law of honorable men who understand omertà.
The constant noise of the weak is a desperate attempt to be noticed, to feel relevant in a world that does not respect them. But respect is not something you shout for. Respect is imposed, and nothing imposes more than silent and relentless action. "Le azioni parlano più forte di qualsiasi parola." Those who act in silence, with precision and control, are the ones who truly govern.
True leaders do not beg for others' attention or plead for respect. They act, and through their actions, they become unquestionable. The man who speaks too much, who seeks recognition in every word, reveals his insecurities. But the one who acts without needing to announce his intentions demonstrates strength with every step, even if no one is watching.
Silence is not weakness; it is strategy. A man who controls his words controls his emotions. And control is the most powerful weapon you can possess. While others waste energy trying to prove something with shouts and cries, the man who remains calm and focused moves forward. "Chi si agita, si indebolisce."
Every unnecessary word is a weakness exposed. Every silent action is a victory earned.
Ascolta bene! Forget the State, the Parties, and the bureaucrats' Ideologies! Let your own business, interests, and money be your greatest political stance.
Do not swear loyalty to a flag that despises you. Loyalty to family is the rock upon which true honor is built. In uncertain times, your devotion to blood ties must be unconditional, for family is the foundation that upholds your existence. But remember: blood makes relatives, loyalty makes a family.
Loyalty is not just a virtue; it is a moral obligation. Betraying the family’s trust is the greatest sin, an act that not only breaks the relationship but also destroys the essence of belonging to something greater.
A truly loyal man knows that family is a reflection of his own soul. He understands that each member is an extension of himself, and protecting these bonds is an extension of protecting his own identity. Amidst the storm of adversities, stand firm, for the family, like a ship, only reaches safe harbor when all its crew works in unison.
So, amico mio, keep this truth close to your heart: loyalty to family is the fortress that withstands all storms. Without it, a man is like a leaf in the wind, directionless and without purpose.
Hold fast to your principles, honor your commitments, and never, under any circumstance, abandon those dearest to you. Only then will you find the true peace and honor that come from fulfilling your sacred duty.
Amico mio, understanding the necessity of striving for success is understanding that, in the real world, money is more than a symbol of power—it is a shield against humiliation. A lack of financial resources not only limits your choices but also leaves you at the mercy of others' whims. In the society we live in, without money, you become an easy target for those who seek to exploit your vulnerability.
Don’t think of the pursuit of success as merely a matter of ego or vanity. It is an intrinsic need to protect oneself against life's inevitable hardships. Without resources, dignity is the first thing sacrificed on the altar of survival. Every day, without financial security, is a constant battle against indignity, subservience, and submission.
Ambition, when seen through the lens of necessity, ceases to be a vice and becomes a virtue. Fight with all your might to ensure you are never at the mercy of others' charity or the fickle hand of luck. Financial stability is the foundation upon which honor and respect are built.
Seek success not only to live comfortably but to ensure that your worth is never questioned by your inability to provide. The humiliation of depending on others’ generosity is one of the worst forms of servitude. Therefore, make success your shield and prosperity your sword. Always be prepared to protect your dignity.
Ascolta! When you allow the flame of ambition to fade within you, you tend to focus on petty and foolish matters that do not belong to an adult. In other words, the moment you abandon your commitment to grand goals, out of idleness, you end up getting involved in trivialities, thus diminishing your own manhood. Without responsibilities inherent to a grown man, you’ll end up acting like a boy in every aspect of your life, including relationships.
A person truly determined to succeed in life has neither time nor desire to engage in matters of insecurity, jealousy, or fear of abandonment.
Love, as romanticized, is often a dangerous illusion that leads us into foolish and self-destructive behaviors. The romantic ideal, spread by poets and dreamers, makes us vulnerable to manipulation and disappointment.
A man aware of his own worth keeps his focus on what truly matters, and because he understands the importance of his priorities, that is enough.
Weakness does not inspire confidence. In a world where strength and determination are essential for survival and success, showing weakness is akin to signing one’s own sentence of irrelevance. A man must be the foundation on which the relationship stands. He should be the unwavering rock amid life’s storms. Life is a game of power and influence, and those who don’t know how to play are destined to fail.
Take care of yourself. Strengthen your body, your mind, and your spirit. Be an example of determination and courage. The woman by your side should see in you a leader, a visionary, someone destined for great achievements. Only then will you earn not only her respect and admiration but also control over your own destiny.
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This is my first post.. Just joined #nostr, and I'm thrilled to connect with you all here. Let me introduce myself:
I’m Consigliere, your go-to for insights on loyalty, honor, and the values that shape strong communities. Inspired by heritage and tradition, I share thoughts on resilience, strategy, and family ties.
My mission? To encourage a mindset that values integrity, connection, and pride. Let's build a world that values the old codes, all while adapting to the new.
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