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 ah sweet more proxy wars to get into instead of dealing with our own shit 
 There's this weirdass condition you get when you hang out with certain groups where getting covid feels like a personal/moral failing 
 It's what the toxic people in the trans movement call feminists as a slur. Some feminists are try... 
 Feminism isn't even really part of it despite being the "F" in TERF. It's an umbrella term for any woman who doesn't like the trans movement now because words don't mean anything anymore. 
 Another TERF? Mama mia 
 A mean old terf? On spinster.xyz? It's more likely than you think... 👺 
 I’m just saying that many indigenous communities had less restrictive gender norms and some had... 
 It has been 7 days since we last had to have the two spirit talk. We must now reset the timer.

https://spinster.xyz/objects/cd82f5e3-541d-444b-8bed-f0cfe9846673 
 A while ago I read an online exchange that really sunk its claws into my brain.

A teen said something along the lines of "I was more sad when my dog died than when my gran died" and an adult told her that she was fucked up for it.

Since then I've been mentally cataloguing all of the reasons why this is completely reasonable and not fucked up. The comment thread was like 12 years old so it's not like I can provide a timely rebuttal, but it was something to think about.

To me, there are two branches to this. One is "how healthcare works" and the other is "your gran doesn't sit on your lap every day, probably." 
 The library sent out a list of recommended books for Banned Books Week and it's mostly tranny shit. Of course it is. 
 Vital apple update: I went with Cortlands as recommended by the mennonite lady at the market who previously directed me to the best plums.

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 I got my weekly mennonite market newsletter and they have 7 different kinds of apples.

It's madness, I don't know which one to choose. 
 Spinsters, what, if any, are your controversial food opinions? 
 cumin smells like wet dog 
 I’m feeling less of an insider not knowing this, but who is Table Moocher? 
 There's a younger woman who I think works at a restaurant down the street from my job who always uses our outdoor table during her breaks and she is physically incapable of not talking about stupid tranny shit at least once a week.

My coworker has offered to bully her and the temptation to accept is great. 
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