@3967703f @96db9ba4 Just like in a good story all the signs are there if you look back/ deeply look and see (once you see it you can't unsee it)... And as someone who is technically half "white" (it's complicated) white people are the worst as saving their own asses... maybe 1 or 2 can (it has been my experience with my family that 1 or 2 out of the lot could) but most of the time they need (outside) intervention😝