he could contact her and she would help him sort it out.  
This seemed like a good idea at the time. He took advantage of it, early in his first year.
What I didn't anticipate, is how much I would wonder what is going on, when I got the bill.
He just had another appointment and not asking him what it was about is killing me.  Nonetheless, I wont. 

 @48bfa577 🙏 You're doing the right thing Phil... I think parenting becomes more taxing (pun intended) as our children get older and into adulthood. That's life as described!