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 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

Oh man, he's fucked. I should get the couch in my basement cleaned up. 
 @dabe0ad5 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

Even if he has given up on his happiness, I doubt she has. 

Maybe if he saw that some how, and the lack of fairness, he would have the energy to change things. 
 @b7cf77c6 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

So you're saying he should cheat on his wife? 
 @dabe0ad5 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

I'm not sure it would be cheating at this point, if she is already out and about...

but I was more saying she might be just fine and even like the way things are. If he could see the how uneven their positions were, it might change his perspective. They both deserve happiness. 
 @b7cf77c6 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

I don't know, I kinda got the feeling he was resigned to paying the price of no sex for watching porn, while she never wanted sex with him to begin with. I don't think she's cheating on him -- she's no prize, but I suppose it isn't out of the realm of possibility. 
 @dabe0ad5 @b7cf77c6 @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

I'm not saying that. 

I am saying he should confront her about it, with a Marital Therapist, and either resolve it, or divorce her ASAP. 
 @b7cf77c6 @dabe0ad5 @f9408be4 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 
"fairness"?

NEVER use Sex as a weapon.

Ask a Marital Therapist.