The only data point I've seen is a song called Beefsteak and Trad Wife doing very well on Wavlake. I've a sneaky feeling it's not representative. I want my partner to be happy.
"...majorities of men and women say children are better off when both mothers and fathers focus equally on their job and home responsibilities (73% of men say this vs. 80% of women)." https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2023/04/st_2023.04.13_breadwinner-wives_11.png