it's not your money in that wallet
Why?
LOL this is a self-custodial Lightning payment on both ends but okay, a troll knows better…
almost nobody does this. it's too difficult, and even if you delude yourself into thinking it's easy there is not enough room on L1 for everyone to do it. there is a hard limit on how many people can do self-custody lightning.
We are very far from reaching that limit