Many such cases. 

You don’t decide your parents. 
You don’t decide your country. 
You don’t decide your cultural/social influences. 
You don’t decide your genetic predispositions. 
You don’t decide your hormones. 
You don’t decide your sexual orientation. 
You don’t decide your desires. 
You don’t even decide your next thought. 

“The world is a stage, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.”

Enjoy the ride.