that is pretty much what i am saying....it just needs to be easier until everything becomes easier than easier.....to scale, you are trying to bring over people that are so used to traditional social media platforms. They need a super beginner setting....ideally the key signer should be guiding you on your own private relay and free/paid relays eventually. The clients should only be the room you party in. 

I really believe Key Signers need more responsibilities for the individual. But that is my idealistic world. 

I would like to be able to run my own relay, set my own relays on my key signer, and have multiple nsecs for both private and professional all on my device, while being able to log into various clients and apps and not have all my features go wonky because primal has this set up and this client has that set up as default and this is from that country....

i believe it isn't consistent and the focus should be the key signers.