Oddbean new post about login | logout When I do certain household tasks, my wife says things like “I am so turned on right now” - but she is not actually turned on. She is appreciative, yes. Moist,m between the legs, not so much. What she is really saying is that she feels freedom from concern and stress, which gives her mental space to focus on things like taking care of our family and being loving towards me. #women #responsibility