They hate themselves and are blackpilled, which has no upside of course. 

They also haven’t travelled, most likely. They don’t know firsthand how much worse things can be. nostr:note1k3x36zelyu7teque7dwya0zd02pshx7hjjng9vkd6e5f6y88854qrpprvm 

 No upside is the way to look at it