one of my biggest complaints about nostr. No consistency whatsoever across apps/web clients, even if one has the same relays in all of them. And its not just likes/reactions. I had a few DMs that were sent over a month ago magically show up a day or two ago after logging into to Amethyst (was using Garnet for a few months). Follows/follower lists are often out of sync as well.
thatβs a protocol for ya
many of these clients arenβt truly interoperable with one another
they have different ways for rendering the same datasets
That's not "a protocol for ya"
That is developer fragmentation
yea I get it that its the nature of the beast, and gotta take the good with the bad, but just so frustrating sometimes