Oddbean

Yeah I already got that sentiment from all y’all. @Puzzito did the same thing when he was trying something and everyone jumped down his throat too. People assumed he deliberately did it and got all pissed, while he was in the background like “oh shit, I didn’t mean to do it like that” and scrambling to fix it. Reality was, he had an idea for a cool feature he thought people would like, but didn’t know how to implement it correctly. Now he figured it out and what he made is pretty damn cool. I’m pretty sure, she has already learned considering the multiple regurgitations of the same idea 🪦🐴

if it was hella important only your love object can get that so, she made a big mistake, and i'm not imputing intent, it's actually a little picture of how miserable software development is these days that this kind of "tell everyone function" is COERCIVE it happens, don't expect to be given praise for missing something this is how it is in software, if your code isn't exact, and fails to do what people expect, pile-in it's rough, you need the motivation to prove you are better, don't take that away from her

look, my work of the first half of 2024 and with a whole month me doing my darnedest to catch the bug couldn't find it so i made this thing, spent 6 months on it, it is useless how do you think i feel right now about that? yes, been 7 weeks trying to do what i think i need to do to fix it because of the pre-shame if i'd actually put taht out and someone goes "hey, this thing is broken" i would have been shame and even, someone claimed to be running my code and they didn't tell me it was broken, and i knew it was broken because i had been testing it constantly for months idk what to say calm your little heart but the wrong answer is gonna ket people killed

Well I didn’t sign any kind of tough love contract. So if y’all put out a project I like, with a one little flaw, I am gonna continue to point out the strengths. https://i.nostr.build/9CrDwO2vQeg6VzP7.gif

thankfully there will be someone who will file a faithful actual bug report eh nostr:nprofile1qydhwumn8ghj7argv4nx7un9wd6zumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcprpmhxue69uhkv6tvw3jhytnwdaehgu3wwa5kuef0qyw8wumn8ghj7argv43kjarpv3jkctnwdaehgu339e3k7mf0qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcqyrwkvn27gqtyxw5v660sqkhpfqyqgdgh3x6emed0qcnkmejkx0f3jstwprn wot?

yeah, i'm just trying to impart information the hard headed go fuck yourself mindset of engineering is being attacked from all directions in these times and without that mindset, a society will have disaster and almost nobody will survive the jews that said "hey, wait a sec, i didn't commit usury, why is adolf saying this" and that led to them deciding to move to america the rest of them, were not thinking thinking hurts at first, but afterwards, it becomes a sport i wish i was as much like this about physical activity as i am about thinking, but i push myself... i am getting better, it's just complicated to balance everything lol!

It’s hard for me. Sometimes I still get hard-headed and have that GFY attitude. That’s why I like these exchanges with you 😂 it’s good practice on decorum. I haven’t been able to balance physical activity either, but I’m still pre-op

yeah, this diabeetus really spun me ... about 3 years it's been getting worse and worse and i really am actually getting the better of it now i have vague memories of knowing someone with a similar problem as you have right now, i hope you get it sorted... ah yes, i remember now who had the problem, one of my aunties, wow i hadn't even thought about her in such a long time... first kid she had had brain damage from asphyxiation due to a difficult delivery (i think they went to C-section too late) and poor boy had some ... i think it was cerebral palsy yeah reminds me my mother they gave her too many opiates of some kind and i came out blue, but not excessively abnormal and certainly it didn't mess up my intelligence but that's not where i lack lol