You must not have tried hard. Try Bisq
I shouldgive it a second chance. I gave it a run but I didn't really figure it out. My situation is a bit complex, I'll be honest. I live in the MENA region and local central bank strictly blocks anything crypto. I use my US based account, but I don't have a proof of address since I moved 7 years ago. The exchanges I used all required that; KYC and shit. Any pointers?
Explore robosats as well. And Hodl Hodl