I think I agree.
 I dont have kids... almost had one but my gf had an abortion without telling me. I told her several time that I want IT and that we will make it work. It would have been No Problem... 

But she was too scared to have it because of stupid reasons. I am kind of heartbroken. I love her but I am not sure If I can forgive her. 
And now she keeps telling me, that she regrets it... 

Society is fucked... they keep telling women Its only their decision If they keep a child  or not... but some decision are just too big for a human brain, I think. We are not living in easy times, people.  

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 That’s so hard for both parties. I hope your hearts heal and you’re able to experience the joy of parenting.