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 I prefer developing irl P2P relationships than relying on a soulless databases

I don't treat people like objects 
 you're a judgmental bitch 

takes one to know one 
 Sorry, didn't mean it to come out that way, please forgive me🙏

I'm just doing what works for me 
 no worries, me too

i'm not "saving myself for jack" but its been a dry number of years working on emperorhood 
 I totally understand, and I'm on the same journey as you

Besides the Jack part, I will totally throw myself at Jack 🤣😂 
 well i think the data is available to prove my "on paper value" but i'm not sure if or how data analysis is going, or action item follow up

frustrating for a well trained project manager 
 I'm sure you're more than qualified  
 I just think dating apps objectify people, that's all 
 humans objectify humans

humans with experience know that you keep the nice ones

i've always enjoyed using a digital interface in reference to dating since the aol days lol 
 Yeah, I know

I'm a privacy guy, and I don't want my public profile out there.  It kind of sucks because I'm intentionally taking myself out of the dating pool

Making it much harder for myself 
 i'm a major privacy girl

tinder actually gives me a app to keep the wolves at bay: i don't have to give my phone number until i meet someone and want to, i can post my pictures if/when i want to, i can block people i don't want to see or talk to

of course there are a ton of ways i'd change it, but the value is in the number of individuals in the database, which is ultimately my selection potential 
 I get it, it works for you, and that's all that matters