GM, everything is happening for you, not to you. Sometimes things happen in your life that are very undesirable. As disruptive & frustrating as these events can seem, they all have value. Don't make yourself into the victim or the judge as it will obscure the value from you. Accept that life has thrown you this challenge & look for the hidden value. Failing to do this often leads to similar "learning opportunities". You're allowed to have preferences but nobody gets to skip the lessons. 💚