Very likely you will have to allow write all for the Amethyst topic. I've set this up for my Synapse Home Server and that is the recommended approach for a locked down personal NTFY server. This guide is very helpful for a personal NTFY server:

https://docs.ntfy.sh/config/#access-control 

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