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 Why is my love life such a disaster.
Unlucky or incompatible?

All I feel is I'm better off alone.

Oh well ... 
 There are millions of potential life partners. You just haven’t met the right one. It’s really just a numbers game. 
 Yeah I know thanks. Only one way to find out  
 thats not true buddy, that feeling will change when you meet the right person at the right time.

this is not a race, even if it feels like one. 
 No such thing as much, bud. 
 Patience you must learn 🧘‍♂️ don't rush things and enjoy every moment of your life. Love comes when it comes... 
 Don't worry, you're getting a girlfriend and a Lambo very soon. 😂  
 What Karnage said, 100%, but also you could look into how you're meeting girls, and try other avenues there too. 
 You will find someone eventually 
But i think approach can make a world of difference. If the motivation/start is looking for partnership compared  to just getting to know each other it can scare off 
 I wasn't looking. Since May I felt sincere peace with being alone and didn't feel like I need a partner anymore. Then in september it just happened. 2 months in I'm just feeling like 'ugg I felt better on my own'  
 Send me your birthchart I'll tell you whats "wrong"
Astrotheme.com is perfect just make sure you hide your birth info so you don't dox yourself like I did. 
 I had an astro done already but that's not for me. Thanks anyway 🙂 
 Ofc, we're all made of stardust it just takes some time. It took this long for us to evolve and we still don't have it right yet 😂 
 There's nothing wrong with being alone.  It's certainly more peaceful.