no i mean i open coracle.social and my relay doesn't even see one http header appear in the logs snort.social, also sometimes, after a while, they start to send messages to the relay i have no fucking idea what is going on because clients are opaque, cryptic shit to my simple brain i set my relays in client i expect to at least see a FUCKING http connection header appear in my relay logs, because i can get that just by curling at it