I disagree, simply because stresstesting vulnerabilities early on is good. As Nostr grows larger someone is bound to get a little mischievous and see if it can withstand whatever they throw at it. 

The Nostr wedding has millions of guests, from all backgrounds, ages, and with different incentives. There’s gonna be red wine thrown around no matter how irresponsible it may be. 

 This is most well-articulated version of this argument I've seen so far.