How π to be a good woman π Learn to say No, π kindly. π Donβt obviscate, but simply let your Yes π be a Yes π that you π can handle, π and π your π No a No you π₯ can stand π by. Donβt compromise if itβs going to take π more from you π than you have to π give. Learn that π not π€ all men are Good Men. Yes, theyβll be π kind π to you π― because you bring kindness out of π€ them, but π₯ that doesnβt mean theyβre a π good π spouse option. If π― a man doesnβt respect your boundaries, π let him go. He can stay an acquaintance, but not a lover. Decide π what you π€ want out of life, π and only adapt if itβs bringing you in a better direction π than π you π€ first imagined. π Forgive quickly, π€ but expect a chance before you put yourself in the π same situation. If someone canβt π handle your boundaries, in a certain area, π donβt invite that person into that area of your π€ life until they display π a change. Be confident in your abilities. π You have π₯ skills others π€ donβt, and thatβs good. Be confident in π― those skills, but donβt mock others π who donβt have them. π Instead, encourage and teach them what π you π― know and can π do. π Learn to celebrate the π little π€ things, π and encourage people who are trying, π even if it π doesn't go well. Learn to ask if they want π help/input, π₯ instead of π€ giving unsolicited π advice. Learn the differences between π men and woman, and π celebrate men instead of cutting them down. Speak truth even when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.
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