Just an example of someone taking Odell's advice and bailing from WoS. I downloaded Mutiny on my phone (I guess its a PWA?) and created a Lightining channel. The transfer process ate somewhere around 20-25% of the $100 I threw in for this test. 

As a first time non custodial lightning user, that is a hard pill to swallow already. Can't seem to find an address that i can put on my Nostr to receive sats, seems to have some wallet connect integration however it doesnt work. All this to say, custodials like Getalby and WoS at least make this seemless. I feel like I'm walking in the dark and going to trip and lose everything because of incompetence, where I would be happy in my ignorance otherwise.