attention span. 

 stability 

still too many bugs
unreliable features (recently coracle.social had a critical security issue, not too long ago I could not login into ditto.pub, etc ... )
new exciting projects and then nothing (plebai)
 

 currently uploading images via primal is broken
that is another example of lack of stability 

 restraint 

 patience. 

 cavalier attitude towards backwards compatibility and interoperability 

 CATBIC. 
because nerds live acronyms and cats. 

 DNM
drunk note mode. 
a quadratic equation must be solved before notes can be sent to relays. 

 the point of being decentralized would be to have no restraint
paradoxically there is a need to have some ground rules 
we had the 'reply guy' episode which was a pain

and there are still a lot of scammers (faking accounts) 
and spam (on common hashtags) ; some spammer accounts are impossible to block  

 There are so many bugs and most users do not understand why. Maybe it needs to solve that. Also it would be great to have a platform that explains users how relays work (maybe said platform exists): if so, tell me which one is it.