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 @1173fcde i'm a good conversationalist if someone chats me up first. i'm trying to figure out how to be the one that chats people up first, since i don't get approached often. 
 @1173fcde i magically know how to do it when very drunk but don't remember much of it. 
 @c721880c LOL, that's exactly why Käärijä won at the esc lol.

This how a Lot of people deal and feel with new people I guess. 
 @1173fcde i'm really fucking "uneven" because 3 weeks ago, i met a woman on an app, and we slept together multiple times. no alcohol needed.

but tonight i go to a bar and i don't know how to talk to a soul, so i get bored and go home. 
 @1173fcde some time ago, i got invited to some guy's home to chat and he apparently had a lot of connections... but i was so drunk that i hardly remember. 
 @c721880c Well it sounds good what happend with that woman? Do you get bored? Or was is just it?

I prefer longterm relationships I don't like to change the person I am in love with that quickly. 
 @1173fcde actually, i had a crush on her, but it wasn't mutual 
 @1173fcde or... well, it's very complicated. long story short, not someone i can be in a relationship with. 
 @c721880c 

Yeah, this love and romantic shit stuff is pretty complicated...

I did remember it was easier... At least I thougt it was... 
 @1173fcde i have never met a woman who behaved like this before

- deep conversation
- get intimate
- more conversation
- repeated intimacy
- she makes me breakfast
- she says it's a real connection
- but she doesn't love me in that way

big wtf moment 
 @1173fcde i have never met a woman who behaved like this before

- deep conversation
- get intimate
- more conversation
- repeated intimacy and bonding
- she makes me breakfast, etc
- she says it's a real connection
- says she has a strong crush
- but she doesn't love me in that way

big wtf moment